Types of scams

The photo blackmailer (sextortion)

Someone who obtained intimate photos of you, or claims to have them, threatens to publish them or send them to your family, school or agencies unless you send more photos, agree to another shoot or meet them. Sometimes they ask for money too.

It often starts as one of the other scams: a "test shoot", photos "to assess you", a private session. Once the photos exist (or the person claims they do, or fabricates them), the tone flips from flattering to threatening: send more, come to another session, or everyone sees them. Sometimes there is a demand for money as well. It is a crime, and the police take it seriously.

How to recognise it

  • It began with photos or a shoot that already broke the first warning sign.
  • The tone changes overnight: from compliments to threats and deadlines.
  • The demands escalate: more photos, then a shoot or a meeting, sometimes money, always urgent and always secret.
  • "Nobody can help you", "the police won't do anything", "if you tell anyone I'll publish them": isolating you is part of the method.

What to do

  1. Do not send anything else, and do not pay if money comes up. It never ends there; giving in only proves the threat works.
  2. Do not delete anything. Screenshots with dates of every message, profile and payment request are what the report needs.
  3. Report it to the police. Threatening to publish intimate images is a crime almost everywhere, and there are units for it.
  4. Get ahead of the images: StopNCII.org helps prevent them from being shared on the main platforms, and every platform has a takedown form for intimate images shared without consent.
  5. Tell someone you trust. Isolation is what the blackmailer counts on; you do not have to handle this alone.

How it sounds

The photo blackmailer

Hey, thanks for the test shoot yesterday, the photos came out great. Send me a few more from home, something more intimate, so I can finish the series. Red flag · Undressing to assess
No, I'm not comfortable with that. Please delete the ones you took.
Careful. I have your photos and I know your family's names. Send the rest tonight or they go online. Red flag · Pressure
I'm not sending anything, and I'm keeping these messages.
Last chance. One more set tonight and I delete everything. Tell anyone and I publish. Red flag · Pressure
I'm not sending anything. I'm reporting this to the police and to the platform.
Verdict: scam

Blackmail with images is a crime. Do not send more, do not pay, keep everything, report it, and use StopNCII.org to keep the images off the main platforms.